aLive @ Stage 4!

It is currently 10:45am Saturday morning.  I am finally awake enough for an update. Thursday went well enough, normal day at work and then when I got home; bedtime usual time (between 7pm-8pm).  I woke up just before midnight with severe abdominal pain, back pain, vomiting, and diarrhea.  This has happened twice before.  Not waiting it out this time, not waiting to see if it gets better on it's own like the last two times.  I checked into the local ER around 12:30am -- door to door is only about a quarter of a mile.  Long story short, I was there until about 7:30am with my friends Zofran and morphine.  I actually needed to have two doses of each throughout the night, which is a change from before.  Usually one dose of each worked like a charm, and immediately.  Morphine did not work immediately like it did the two previous times.  This is a little concerning because eventually my body will get used to/adjust to the pain meds and I'll nee...

Background: I saw a therapist after my terminal diagnosis. One thing that she said stuck with me. She told me that I am a wife, a mother, a sister, an aunt, a lover of books, a knitter, a teacher. Picture those and the many other aspects of myself riding on my bus. Right now (at the time of diagnosis and chemo) the cancer was driving the bus. Eventually the cancer will move to the back of the bus. Keep cancer at the back of the bus. I have been trying to do that since. I just realized that I have been living the past six years awaiting imminent death. I've been living with this pall of death hanging over my head since I received my terminal diagnosis. It really helped, what my Interventional Radiologist told me before he did my lung biopsy when I was being diagnosed, that my stage 4 was grouped with stage 4s who had two weeks or so to live, and that there needs to be [more of a breakdown -- can't remember his exact words] within the stages, and that I had many, many y...

Below is a research paper I wrote for the English Composition I class I am taking this summer.  I thought you might be interested in reading it.  Don't worry -- it's only 5 1/2 pages!  :) These are the comments my professor gave me --  the only downside is that I used APA instead of MLA.  He's not counting off for that, though.   This is an excellent Research Paper, Tammy. I am pleased with how this turned out. The good news is I am not going to recommend revision because you successfully met the main outcomes of this assignment. Your essay is purposeful and focused. It demonstrates a reason for your research. Metastatic Breast Cancer   Cancer is cancer is cancer, right?    This is the prevailing thought about cancer; but it is not necessarily so.   There are many nuances to cancer.   There are types, subtypes, stages, and receptors.   There are many different treatment options based on these types, subtypes, stages, ...

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You may or may not know that I am attending college classes (virtually; I wouldn't be able to do this in person) to obtain my teaching degree.  For this summer semester, one of my classes is English Composition I.  Our essay this week was "compare and contrast".  I chose to compare and contrast Komen and METAvivor.  I just got feedback on it from my instructor.  100/100 and he loved it.  What do you think? A Tale of Two Cancer Fundraising Organizations Did you know that the Susan G. Komen (Komen) organization is not the only breast cancer fundraising organization out there?   METAvivor is an organization that donates a bigger percentage of its donations to breast cancer research than Komen does.   When we look at the founding of each organization (when it was founded, who founded it, and why it was founded), each organization’s public image, and information about how each organization treats research dollars, we will see that METAvivor is the be...

Last year, before the Covid lock-downs started, I applied for and obtained a job as a ticket-taker for our local baseball team, the Southern Maryland Blue Crabs.  I am honestly not a huge fan of baseball, but it is a great community event whenever there is a home game.  We went to games sporadically when the boys were little, mostly during school nights or scout nights.  Whenever we have gone to a game we have seen lots of friends and neighbors.  It is a great time, even if  baseball isn't really your thing.  To be completely honest, my sole motivation for taking the job was to supplement our meager income.  My husband had recently gone out of work on disability, so his income was cut.  Our house payment, however, was not.  We were already struggling financially due to our combined medical bills, so a decrease in income was awful.  I had already picked up a two extra-pay coaching positions at the school that I work at -- softball for the...

In case you don't know, I have begun taking classes in order to obtain a teaching degree.  One of the classes is Public Speaking.  Our final speech is a Persuasive speech.  The topic I chose is "Caring for Others".  I thought you might be interested.  Please, leave a comment and let me know what you think. Update July 2021 -- I have taken my speech notes and expanded on it for an English paper.  If you don't want to watch the speech, here's the paper: 🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷🔷 It Takes a Village…. They say it takes a village to raise a child … I say it also takes a village to care for a sick person.   You will not be able to tell by my appearance, but I have Stage 4 cancer.   I was diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer just over six years ago.   Since then, I have been on continuous treatment.   Especially while I was undergoing chemotherapy, but still, even now six years later, I have been approach...